Braces? Please help.?

My teeth arnt to bad but i have to have sergury on one of my teeth to put a chain on it and pull it down...which is why i had to get braces. I got them yesterday, i wanted clear because they are less noticable. I really hate them because the bottem had to be silver, the top is fine though. Do you think its possible to get invisaline on the bottem instead? The procedure i needed done is on the top i only need braces on the bottem cause of the way my jaw is aligned or something but its not bad. Also if i couldbt ge invisalign on the bottom...they said i couldnt get clear cause it would destroy my upper teeth cause the clear are stronger than teeth so when i bite down it would ruin them. But they fixed my mouth now so when i bite down my teeth go right above the braces they dont even touch..could i possibly get clear ones? Or invisaline? Please help? Any orthadonists out there? I hate the bottom ones i look terriable.